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In the whirlwind of parenting, maintaining an organized and serene household can seem like a daunting task. However, with the right strategies and tools, it is possible to create a harmonious living space without breaking the bank. This article shared by Janice Russell is a treasure trove of practical, cost-efficient tips designed specifically for busy parents who aspire to balance the chaos of daily life. Discover how prioritizing, embracing technology, and simple organization hacks can revolutionize your home dynamics, offering peace of mind and a well-ordered environment for your family.

Chart Your Family Priorities Clearly

Begin your organizational journey by clearly delineating your family’s priorities. Having a visible, well-articulated set of goals helps in aligning your daily actions with your long-term aspirations. This clarity not only fosters a sense of purpose within the family but also streamlines decision-making, ensuring that your energy is invested in activities that truly matter. Regular family meetings to revisit these priorities can also reinforce commitment and ensure everyone is on the same page.

Harness the Power of Technology

Technology can be a busy parent’s best ally in staying organized. From budgeting apps that keep your finances in check to calendar apps that synchronize the entire family’s schedule, the digital world offers a plethora of tools. Embrace these resources to automate mundane tasks, set reminders for important events, and manage your time more effectively. With the right apps at your fingertips, managing household tasks becomes less of a chore and more of a breeze.

Contact with Home Repair Professionals

Using a helpful app to connect with home repair and maintenance professionals directly from your smartphone can greatly simplify the process of maintaining your home. These apps not only allow you to find and hire trusted professionals quickly but also let you track the progress of your projects in real-time. You can also get valuable advice and tips on home repair directly through the app, ensuring your home is well-maintained and any issues are addressed promptly. This convenience makes managing home repairs and maintenance more efficient and less stressful.

Empower Kids with Chore Charts

Chore charts are a fantastic way to teach children responsibility and contribute to household maintenance. Tailor chores to be age-appropriate and rotate them to keep tasks interesting. By involving children in the upkeep of the home, not only do you lighten your own load, but you also instill a sense of ownership and teamwork in your kids. This practice fosters independence and organizational skills that will serve them well beyond the home.

Collaborate in Pet Care

If you have pets, involve older children in their care. Sharing pet responsibilities not only eases your workload but also teaches children empathy, discipline, and the importance of routine. Establishing a pet care schedule can ensure that these tasks are carried out consistently, preventing any last-minute scrambles.

Optimize Space with Smart Storage Solutions

Utilize cost-effective storage solutions like over-the-door clear organizers and affordable shelving units to maximize space. By having a designated place for everything, you reduce clutter and make daily routines smoother. Investing time in organizing your space can have a transformative effect on the ambiance of your home, making it more inviting and functional.

Strategically Allocate Time for Organization

Dedicate specific time slots each week for organizing tasks. Whether it’s sorting mail, planning meals, or reviewing the family calendar, having a set time for these activities can prevent them from becoming overwhelming. Consistency in these efforts ensures that your home remains a well-oiled machine, with each family member playing their part in maintaining order and harmony. 

As the last toy is put away and the final document is digitally stored, the true essence of a well-organized home shines through. It’s not merely about the absence of clutter or the seamless management of schedules; it’s about the peace of mind that comes from knowing everything is in its place. It’s the collective sigh of relief when family life flows smoothly, and the joy in moments shared without the looming shadow of disarray. The journey to this serene state is paved with commitment, creativity, and collaboration, a testament to the power of unity and purpose in transforming a house into a harmonious home.

         Keep Your Family Healthy With This Resource Guide                                                                      by  Amanda Henderson

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In the post-pandemic era, instilling healthy habits in children has become increasingly vital. Fortunately, there are several actionable strategies you can use to establish a sturdy foundation for both physical and emotional well-being. By adopting these guidelines, you can better prepare your children for a future of balance and health. This in-depth guide offers parents a range of effective methods that they can use to help foster lifelong wellness in their kids.

Prioritize Physicality During Recreation

Active play is more than just a source of amusement; it’s a critical component of a child’s physical development. Activities like cycling, swimming, and simple games like tag are excellent ways to promote better physical health. These types of engagement also serve as a teaching ground for important social skills like teamwork and communication. Moreover, outdoor activities create opportunities for children to forge a meaningful connection with nature. Balancing these dynamic outdoor experiences with more sedentary indoor activities is essential for comprehensive child development.

Nurture Lifelong Learning

Encouraging children to follow their dreams not only builds confidence but also fuels intellectual curiosity. For instance, if your child shows a desire to help others, consider a potential solution with a degree in nursing and show them how to map out the steps they’ll have to take to get there. With a master’s degree in nursing, for example, you can pursue advanced clinical roles, specialize in areas like nurse education or administration, engage in research, or take leadership positions in healthcare settings.

You can even lead by example by earning an online degree yourself! Such actions not only inspire children but also help them realize the importance of higher education and professional growth. When children see their parents investing in learning, they’re more likely to value it, as well.

Address Mental Wellness Openly

Regular discussions about mental health should be as commonplace as conversations about physical well-being in a household. Creating a safe space where children can openly share their feelings and concerns fosters meaningful dialogue and encourages effective problem-solving. This approach ingrains emotional intelligence in children from a young age. As a result, the American Psychological Association notes that they acquire the tools needed to navigate stress anxiety, and other emotional challenges as they mature.

Strengthen Attentive Communication

Effective communication is more than just speaking; OurFamilyWizard points out that it hinges on the ability to listen actively. Validating your children’s emotions and viewpoints, even when they diverge from your own, strengthens the emotional connection between parent and child. This fortified bond promotes greater openness and transparency in your kids. Feeling genuinely heard boosts children’s self-esteem, laying the groundwork for their future mental well-being.

Opt for Wellness-Focused Products

Each home purchase presents a chance to prioritize health-conscious options. From the groceries in the pantry to the cleaning products in the cupboard, every item can either support or undermine family well-being. For instance, selecting ergonomic furniture can encourage proper posture, while choosing organic foods can minimize exposure to harmful pesticides. These mindful choices contribute to creating a living space that is conducive to both physical and mental health. In this way, the home becomes a sanctuary that actively supports the family’s overall well-being. Just be sure to read reviews from trusted sources before purchasing.

Empower Through Health Knowledge

Knowledge is power, and when children understand the importance of proper nutrition, regular exercise, and adequate sleep, they are more likely make informed choices. Parents should take the time to educate their children on these subjects, creating awareness that will benefit them in the long run. This step is particularly vital as children transition to adolescence and adulthood, where they’ll need to make independent decisions regarding their health.

Building healthy habits in children is not just a responsibility but an investment in their long-term happiness and success. Parents are the primary mentors in a child’s life; therefore, implementing these essential strategies and demonstrating an appreciation for knowledge and self-improvement will create a robust framework for their holistic development. Ensuring that children grow up with a balanced approach to physical and emotional health sets them on a path toward a fulfilling, balanced life.

Amanda Henderson is both a mom to two rambunctious boys and preschool teacher, so she knows from experience how quickly a situation can become unsafe. She created and writes for Safe Children to educate parents on how to keep their children safe while also having fun.

What is in our minds impacts our perspectives and actions. So I tend to pay extra attention when I see the word ‘mind’ in the Bible, where it occurs over 500 times. Lately I have been drawn to three such New Testament passages which, I believe, are critical for us to grasp.

Romans 12:1-18 – “Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will…Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the faith God has distributed to each of you.

For just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, so in Christ we, though many, form one body, and each member belongs to all the others. Love must be sincere…Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord… Share with the Lord’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality…Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited…if it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”

Philippians 2:5-8 – “In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to death—even death on a cross!”

Notice a common theme? The renewed mind, the mindset of Jesus, is servant oriented. The mind is filled more with thoughts of others than of self. Perhaps Jesus demonstrated it best in a third passage. “When he had finished washing their feet, he put on his clothes and returned to his place. “Do you understand what I have done for you?” he asked them. “You call me ‘Teacher’ and ‘Lord,’ and rightly so, for that is what I am. Now that I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also should wash one another’s feet. I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you. Very truly I tell you, no servant is greater than his master, nor is a messenger greater than the one who sent him. Now that you know these things, you will be blessed if you do them”” (John 13)

Neither John nor Jesus use the word ‘mind’ but it is clear Jesus is encouraging His disciples to share His servant mindset.

I wonder: What our churches would be like of this was our mindset? For that matter, what would our families, neighborhoods, communities, and workplaces be like? What would our politics look like? Keep this in mind – it begins with us.

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Not only does it never stop – it increases. Our society’s decrease of civility has become more than a snowball rolling downhill; it’s now like an avalanche. (1)

When was the last time you heard or read a news story about a current political issue that didn’t mention heated opposition – opposition that was fierce and vengeful – opposition that was more personal than philosophical – opposition that spewed revenge rather than reconciliation?

And it’s not only infected our politicians. Most everyday crimes are committed as acts of revenge, relationships are fractured because of desire for revenge, workplaces are shattered by former employees for the sake of revenge, reputations are destroyed because of revenge. People go after one another to put other people in their place, to knock them down and “get even.”

Many are pleading “Let’s end it!” But to no avail. It falls on deaf or plugged ears, bumps up against hard, hate-filled hearts. It becomes easy to throw up our hands in despair and put all our energy into bemoaning the current state of affairs, or even to just give up and accept that “It’s just the way it is.”

But there is another alternative. We can choose God’s way.
In my book A Nation Under God – Reflections from Jeremiah (2) there is a chapter on godly leadership. Here’s a small portion.

“First, a godly leader has a dedication to the principle of righteousness. “This is what the Lord says: Do what is just and right.” (Jeremiah 22:3) As Proverbs puts it, “Kings detest wrongdoing, for a throne is established through righteousness.” (Proverbs 16:12) Godly leaders have a heart for God and His ways. They value and pursue righteousness so they choose daily to cooperate with God. Consider David. King Saul was unjustly pursuing David. Twice David had opportunity to capture and kill King Saul – and who could blame him? But David knew that doing so was not right by God’s standards so he refused to do so. He knew he was accountable to God. Leaders of nations are ultimately accountable not to the electorate, the lobbyists, or the campaign contributors, but to God. A. W. Tozer stated, “… there can be no tolerance of evil, no laughing off the things that God hates.” (3)

The prophet Daniel well illustrates the principle – he was told to eat what the king served but “Daniel resolved not to defile himself with the royal food and wine, and asked the chief official for permission not to defile himself this way.” (Daniel1:8) Godly leaders must act on godly principles. When godly principles cease to matter then religion, truth, honesty, and integrity cease and begin to disappear.”

No wonder Paul wrote “If you keep on biting and devouring each other…you will be destroyed by each other.” (Galatians 5:15) As we are now seeing, when these things disappear the avalanche occurs. Certainly godly leaders are an important part of the road to recovery. But more important than even godly leaders is you and me. We, too, need to be godly. We need to make a difference in our spheres of influence, whether big or small. The Bible is clear and emphatic in telling us how to do so. Here’s just a partial list.

1. “…Be at peace with each other.” (Mark 9:50)
2. “…Wash one another’s feet.” (John 13:14)
3. “…Love one another…” (John 13:34,35 & 15:12,17; Romans 13:8)
4. “Be devoted to one another in brotherly love…” (Romans 12:10)

5. “…Honor one another above yourselves. (Romans 12:10)
6. “Live in harmony with one another…” (Romans 12:16)
7. “…Stop passing judgment on one another.” (Romans 14:13)
8. “Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you…” (Romans 15:7)9. Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying each other.” (Galatians 5:26)
10. “Carry each other’s burdens…” (Galatians 6:2)
11. “…Be patient, bearing with one another in love.” (Ephesians 4:2)
12. “Be kind and compassionate to one another…” (Ephesians 4:32)
13. “…Forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you…” (Ephesians 4:32)
14. “…In humility consider others better than yourselves.” (Philippians 2:3)
15. “…Pray for each other.” (James 5:16)

Sounds wonderful, but admittedly it’s hard to live this way. But Paul tells us how. “Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.” (Ephesians 5:21) ‘Out of reverence for Christ’ because “To the vilest and most deadly charges Jesus responded with deep, unbroken silence, such as excited the wonder of the judge and the spectators. To the grossest insults, the most violent ill-treatment and mockery that might well bring indignation into the feeblest heart, He responded with voiceless complacent calmness. Those who are unjustly accused, and causelessly ill-treated know what tremendous strength is necessary to keep silence to God.” (4) And that strength comes from Jesus.
So let’s end it! Starting right now! With me! With you! ‘Out of reverence for Christ.’ (5)

(1) Photo by Krzysztof Kowalik on Unsplash
(2)A Nation Under God – Reflections from Jeremiah, Rev. Curry Pikkaart, © 2018 Rev. Curry Pikkaart, Amazon, p. 49
(3) Tozer – Quoted by J. Oswald Sanders in Spiritual Leadership, Chapter 10- https://onegriphigher.com/books-im-reading/spiritual-leadership-oswald-j-sanders/
(4) Streams in the Desert, Mrs. Charles Cowman – February 10
(5) From Graphic Stock